Have you recently broke up with your spouse ? Or is it that you are on the verge of breaking up ? Everything seems to be going the wrong way and nothing never seems to please your partner regardless of how hard you try?

The truth is, you will feel tormented, miserable and distressed but you are not alone . Everyday people break up for various reasons , but the question is, do you want to your relationship to go down the drain ?

So how do you mend a broken heart and save your relationship?

One of the main reasons why some couples find it hard to mend a broken relationship is because they allow pride to fill their lives . Pride is one thing that will cause your relationship to go down the drain

1. Pride will prevent you from picking up the phone when you know your partner is calling

2. Pride is when you try to revenge your ex for what they have done to you – This involves:

* Bashing your partner with hurtful words
* Bringing back things from the past that they have done wrong etc

Pride can do a whole lot more to separate you from your lover so lets not dwell on the bad but rather lets go to the solution.

Now, take a deep breath and get comfortable and try to remember some of the good times you and your ex had in the past. How he or she made you happy, the smiles that he or she always put on your face and the comfort you feel just to have your partner’s arms around you.

Lets Find Out How To Mend A Broken Relationship And Repeat All Those Good times

When most couples have a fight or just broke up , the first reaction is normally a text message or a phone call from one partner to the other . This may work sometime a more effective way is to get a pen and a clean sheet of paper and a sincere heart, an envelope and some postage stamps.

Think about it, how touching it would be to receive a hand written letter from you partner pouring out his or her heart to you for your forgiveness? You partner will be touched by this move as you took the time out to write a letter from your heart.

But What Should You Put On The paper?

What you are about to hear is may not be what you want to hear, but it has worked thousands of times before and is still working. Here is what you should write:

Agree with your partner by telling him or her that they are right You want then to know that you are very sincere and that everything you write is coming from the heart. Let your partner know that your love, respect and appreciate all the good things hime or her have done for you in the past Now here is the turning point:

You are going to let your partner know you agree to go on with the break up. What did you just read? Yes you did! Let your partner know that you are very sorry and you want them to be happy and if breaking up will make them happy then so be it.But this is not where it ends, this is just the start.